If I have baby with him, it will add to the drama if we break up. If we dont't break up, by the time things are smooth it might be difficult to conceive. If we break up, and I got got pregnant by the donor sperm bank, then it would be less drama and I would have baby before it is too late.
Sperm bank? It is getting late. Might break-up. Wait for better times, or just do it whether he knows or not?phantom of the opera
Single parenting can be done...and done well...but raising a child is difficult enough with 2 parents. I wouldn't go it alone if there was a choice.
That said, you're obviously thinking you may not have a choice. If you're not absolutely certain he's the one, DON'T DO IT! You'll be tied to him forever, and not in a friendly way. You'll have to share the person you love most in the world with this man you don't even like!
I've heard a saying before: "Having a child is like taking your heart out of your chest and letting it walk around on the outside." Will you trust him with that?
The drama of the break-up is so unimportant...think about it...does it really matter in the long run?
Sperm bank? It is getting late. Might break-up. Wait for better times, or just do it whether he knows or not?listen to opera opera theaterMarried to him for 10 years. If I have baby from the sperm bank, the baby is not his. I don't have to share. Women are doing all the work, married or single. Dads don't. I have yet to see a man put his ego, anger, bandpractice, sports, xbox, beer, etc aside for the sake of his child. Report It
I have seen those going it alone, and it peaceful by comparison. Report It
Wait until you find a man you love and want to spend the rest of your life with.....
Sounds like any scenario in your question would be a diaster.
EH!!! are you for real???
Wait until you find Mr Right
Do what is going to make you happy, If you want a baby and if you think that you are your man is no going to make it then I would give it alittle time to see what happens!!
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